Organizing a funeral isn't the most enjoyable thing you'll ever do, but sooner or later all of us will need a fond farewell. While most funeral directors are thoroughly decent professionals who aren't out to rip you off, unethical undertakers who are all too eager to overcharge for their services do exist unfortunately, so it pays to know their secrets. We've collected 29 insider hacks and little-known facts that funeral directors tend to keep quiet about.

If it's feasible, planning the funeral well in advance is highly advisable. Take the time to shop around, compare quotes and properly organize a fitting ceremony that won't leave you in debt. Plus, you'll be feeling less emotional and more capable to negotiate.

It may surprise you but it is legal in the vast majority of US states as well as most western countries to skip the services of a funeral director and opt for a budget home funeral, an increasingly popular alternative.

In a direct disposal funeral, the body is collected from the mortuary, placed in a van and taken immediately to be buried or cremated without ceremony. A cost-effective option that isn't as clinical as it sounds, family and friends are free of course to organize a DIY memorial afterwards.

Private burials, in a garden or elsewhere, are legal in most jurisdictions. There are some restrictions, however, which include burying the body away from any sources of water, and it's worth noting that the property may he harder to sell in the future if there's a body buried in the yard.

Figuring out the best deal has never been easier, thanks to the new crop of funeral services comparison sites. You just have to do a simple internet search and several should pop up on your screen.

Standard pre-paid deals and insurance plans do not cover third-party costs such as organist fees, grave-digging bills and physician charges. Make sure you read the small print before you sign on the dotted line. 

The most expensive funerals ever

It isn't tacky to negotiate. Prices aren't fixed and you might be able to reduce the costs of the funeral by asking the undertaker for a discount, especially on any extra services you select.

While some funeral directors only make a modest profit on caskets, others may mark them up by a staggering 200% or even more. Shopping around on and offline for the best deal may save you a tidy sum of money.

Eco-friendly caskets shouldn't be expensive but even so they tend to be on the pricey side. Believe it or not, simple cardboard versions can cost three times as much as basic traditional wooden caskets, presumably because they're fashionable right now.

Though sealed caskets can keep out the elements and help slow down the rate of decomposition, the body will decay eventually – even if the casket is made from solid stainless steel or a similar tough metal.

It is not a legal requirement that a casket, cardboard, wooden or otherwise, must be used to house a dead body. Why not go natural and consider a perfumed shroud instead? It makes for a more environmentally sound option.

Many people think embalming is mandatory for hygiene reasons, but contrary to what some morticians might imply, it is not a legal requirement for a body to be embalmed, with only a few rare exceptions.

You might want to bear in mind that the chemicals used in embalming are based on formaldehyde, which is highly toxic and can contaminate surrounding soil and groundwater after the body has been buried.

If the funeral home lacks refrigeration facilities for example, the body may be kept in a large hub mortuary which might be located far away from the home. Check with the funeral director if you're uncomfortable with this.

Different time slots can command different prices and as morning is considered 'off-peak', some funeral directors may offer you a reduced rate if you choose to conduct the funeral before noon, especially if business is slow.

Checking the funeral home is affiliated to or has membership of a professional association is always a wise move – you'll get improved protection and redress if you're not satisfied with the service provided.

You might think that the larger companies would provide a more professional and cost-effective service than independent 'mom-and-pop' funeral homes. In fact, many smaller firms offer a more personal service and better value for money.

Former members of the armed forces and even their spouses in some cases may be eligible for financial assistance with funeral arrangements from the government and charitable organizations, depending on their individual circumstances.

If the deceased was receiving welfare benefits or there is no family member who is able or willing to contribute, they may quality for financial assistance to help towards or even cover the costs of the funeral.

In an effort to make you go premium and splurge, unscrupulous funeral directors may tug on your heartstrings and try to suggest that you have to go for the top-of-the-range options to show that you cared for your loved one . Try not to fall for it, and think about what your loved one would have wanted, as well as your budget.

When you're in the throes of grief, getting the best deal will probably be the last thing on your mind. If you can, bring a friend along to the funeral director's – ideally somebody who doesn't know the deceased and who isn't feeling emotional. Your friend can organise and negotiate with staff on your behalf.

Read more in How to handle finances following a bereavement.

Your funeral director may boast years of experience and bundles of compassion but family and friends always have the deceased's best interests at heart. Don't be afraid to question anything you're unsure about and request changes if necessary.

Shopping around for a reputable value for money florist is the way forward here. You don't have to go with the preferred florist. Funeral directors tend to get a cut, which pushes up the price of any wreaths or arrangements.

Hiring half a dozen pallbearers can inflate the overall cost of a funeral. Why not ask friends and family to bear the casket instead? This makes for a touching tribute to the deceased and will help trim the budget.

A lot of funeral directors have simpler, less pricey options that you may have to ask about – don't assume you have to rent the first luxury hearse offered to you. In fact, you could even use a large family station wagon or minivan.

The limos the funeral director suggests may not represent the best value for money. Compare luxury car hire businesses online in your neighborhood and look for the most wallet-friendly deal. Or, if you want to save even more cash, ask mourners to use their own vehicles.

You don't have to go through the funeral director to order your loved one's memorial plaque or headstone, which might include a hefty mark-up – sourcing it directly from a stonemason may be a cheaper option.

If you're unhappy in any way about the service you have received from the funeral director, you can file a formal complaint with an official funeral home association or consumer protection organization.

Another thing your funeral director may not tell you – there are companies out there that can send teams of people periodically to weed the ground, clean the memorial stone and replace wilted floral displays. This comes at a cost of course, but can be worth it as graves need quite a bit of maintenance.

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