Lifestyle 'essentials' that aren't essential at all

Rebecca Rutt
by Lovemoney Staff Rebecca Rutt on 19 October 2012  |  Comments 23 comments

Apparently we think holidays, nights out and cinema trips are spending essentials, but is this sending us into financial ruin?

Lifestyle 'essentials' that aren't essential at all

 The economy is in tatters, savers are getting dismal returns on their cash and inflation is still running above the Bank of England's target rate of 2%. Despite this, we're spending even more now on luxuries.

In fact, the average spend per household is a whopping £6,194 on so-called ‘lifestyle essentials’, which include nights out, holidays, haircuts and takeaways, according to new research from LV=.

Although studies like this do generally need to be taken with a large pinch of salt, the interesting news to me is that spending on these ‘essentials’ has increased by £9 billion since last year to a total of £158 billion.

That’s quite a lot considering in the same time one in five people has experienced a pay freeze.

Our top lifestyle essentials

Top of the list is unsurprisingly holidays with households spending an average of £3,250 on their yearly summer break and also on weekend trips throughout the year. Just under half (44%) of those asked classify it as an essential, while 27% put meals out in second place in their top ten lifestyle essentials.

Also featuring in the results were gym memberships, TV subscriptions and trips to the cinema.

Top 10 spending essentials

Rank

Lifestyle essentials

Total amount spent in the year to August 2012 (billions)

Total amount spent in the year to August 2011 (billions)

1

Holidays and weekend breaks

£83.3 billion

£81.5 billion

2

Meals out in restaurants

£20.2 billion

£19.4 billion

3

TV Subscriptions

£8.1 billion

£7.8 billion

4

Haircuts

£4.5 billion

£4.4 billion

5

Nights out in pubs and bars

£12.1 billion

£11.6 billion

6

Takeaways and delivery meals

£12.5 billion

£12.1 billion

7

Culture and arts

£2.8 billion

£2.7 billion

8

Gym  and sport memberships

£6.5 billion

£6.3 billion

9

Trips to the cinema

£833 million

£804 million

10

Premium foods

£7.3 billion

£7 billion

Total

 

£158 billion

£149 billion

What would you class as essential?

Now while I do love a good meal out, and spending a week or two in the sun is a lovely thought, I wouldn’t call either of these essential to my life. So I find the study a little hard to accept.

This is the same for cinema trips, takeaways, haircuts and pretty much everything on this list. I don’t see them as essentials, at all, but rather nice luxuries. If money is tight there are other things I’d spend cash on first.

Rent, utility bills and food all come under the essential category for me along with travel. This is the kind of thing I would like to see included in the list and I’m interested to know how people have struggled, or not so, in paying day-to-day essentials.

According to LV= a third of us are saving money by bringing in our own packed lunches while 11% take their own tea or coffee into work, but despite this we are still spending more than we used to on these luxury items.

There’s also a slightly worryingly trend revealed by the study which shows that 23% of us wouldn’t cut back on a holiday if money was tight, while 17% refuse to give up a TV subscription and 16% would still cling onto meals out.

If you agree with this essential list and wouldn’t cut back on something like a night out if your pay packet was frozen let me know. Alternatively if you disagree, then what would you class as an essential spend?

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  • CuNNaXXa
    Love rating 362
    CuNNaXXa said

    What is essential?

    Surely life is for living, not slaving for someone else. While our masters would have us work and sleep, and nothing else, we should strive to try and enjoy life.

    So, is having a holiday, or letting our hair down in other fashions, essential? Of course it is!

    If we earn just enough to pay our bills, with nothing left over for lifestyle essentials, then we might as well become slaves.

    The Fairtrade campaign tries to get third world workers a decent wage, instead of paying them a pittance. Are we going the same way, with costs spiralling to the point whereby we earn just enough to pay for the roof over our heads, and the food in our bellies, and maybe some heat to keep the chill at bay.

    The difference between us and third world countries is that our standard of living is suppose to be substantially superior to our poorer cousins, yet we are gradually sliding towards a society filled with a labour market that can aspire to nothing more than paying bills.

    I think that anything that improves our lives is an essential, whether it be the odd takeaway, a weekend break, or the family holiday. We NEED this to break the monotony of our humdrum existence.

    Mind you, this is only my viewpoint, and others may agree or disagree.

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  • finnol49
    Love rating 22
    finnol49 said

    "The last thing that goes is holidays" - I can't say I'm surprised. The essential holiday as far as I'm concerned is the break in the middle of winter, the one that provides sunshine & vitamin D in January/February. The popular spots in the Canaries, Azores & Madeira are occupied not only by Germans but also Scandinavians who have even less sunlight in winter than we do. Of course, the tour operators (yes I'm looking at you TUI) gouge during the school holidays, but they claim "it's all supply & demand" - you mean "whatever the market will bear - so if it screws families, so what?

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  • muira
    Love rating 30
    muira said

    obviously lv have conducted their research on the well above average income bracket!!

    nothing on that list is like you say is an essential lifestyle spend to the average working/unemployed brit..

    ..and the word "our",is possibly aimed at the likes of well dressed and well heeled people

    who already include them as normal,not as something to possibly forfeit

    should their already generous incomes be in some sort of peril from impending financial ruin

    i class essential spend as rates,food,energy bills etc..which seem to swallow up most of my income..leaving me with little for above luxuries..

    but what you have'nt had you don't miss!!

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  • Meduza78
    Love rating 17
    Meduza78 said

    i would consider the hair cut in the salon, or done by someone else, who normally gets paid for it as an essential. just the hair cut, without styling and coloring in the salon, which costs more than if we style and color it at home. i go to the salon about 2x a year as i have long hair but people, especially women, who grow short hair would need to go there more often. or would you rather see an army style on women on the streets? or women with long long hair without any style, probably just fixed in the pony tail? all of them?

    essential for me is medication, for which i have to pay and the recurrence of its need is unpredictable, as are my acute autoimmune attacks. every time i get a new attack i spend over £20 for the prescription, and the doctors are sometimes mean so that only prescribe a month treatment, when they know i will need to get more and pay again. there was a year i had to go to the specialist 3 times and always pay more as the prescription price keeps rising. now it is a bit better but always when it comes, it is a pity for my purse.

    I had no holiday this year, but i am not moaning. i was busy with my things anyway.

    we can get vitamin D from quality supplements and a proper diet (animal sources mainly), no need to stress the wallet and the body with a double change of climate in the middle of winter.

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  • oldhenry
    Love rating 265
    oldhenry said

    The most essential spend is the beer kit! These have increased over the past few years but I can still brew 40 pints of drinkable beer for around £12, or £22 if I want nice Wherry bitter.

    I can make it strong by putting less water in and so confound the Heath freaks in the NHS who want to control every move we make. They want only people who work and pay tax and therefpre must stay healthy, all the OAPs should die off as soon as they stoop paying 40% tax.

    I suppose I spend a lot of holidays as we visit my son , and grandsons, in the USA. The governmnet tax us here with their immoral APD - I wish I could face just getting to France and booking a flight from CDG. I know the Northern Irish do this from Dublin, good for them.

    As for most of the stuff on that list it is a foreign country to me, is there really anything on a subscription TV worth watching? Plenty of books in the library, get them while it is open as the Council are shutting them as fast as possible- but keeping councillors' allowances at a good rate you will notice.

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  • Mike10613
    Love rating 599
    Mike10613 said

    It doesn't surprise me that the British spend more on haircuts than culture. I went to see a Damien Hirst exhibition a couple of weeks ago. The sheep pickled in formaldehyde didn't really impress me. The toffs like to spend taxpayers money on culture though. I love to know how much the British spend on tattoos and false eyelashes...

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  • This_is_me
    Love rating 24
    This_is_me said

    This just shows how stupid people are. It is no wonder that the country is in such a mess. People do not seem to be able to think ahead; instead just borrow next year's wages and spend it. Idiots like that deserve to spend their old age cold and hungry.

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  • electricblue
    Love rating 643
    electricblue said

    @Oldhenry

    Any chance that less home brew = fewer typos?

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  • yocoxy
    Love rating 132
    yocoxy said

    "our masters" "we're slaves" "the toffs"

    It seems a lot here have an 'us and them' attitude..

    No wonder there's so much bitterness.

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  • hobson2000
    Love rating 1
    hobson2000 said

    Just had a fabulous break in Cornwall with my elderly parents.

    We stayed in the St Austell Travelodge for 3 nights, all sharing a room, and prepaid for breakfast.

    Total cost for stay £120 for 3 people for 3 nights B&B

    Took the bus to Mevagissey to which the brilliant bus driver asked if M&D had passes, Mum had hers so didn't pay forvthe journey.

    Took sandwiches & coffee so saved a packet on rip off motorway service food, and filled the flask up again for return journey nd bought sarnies at Tesco.

    We did eat out each night, but at pubs rather than fancy restaurants. There is a McDonalds and a Pizzahut right outside the lodge, and food was also served in the evening in the dining area at reasonable prices.

    The bar in the Travelodge also had a special deal on Stella Cidre, 2 bottles for £6 making fir a reasonable drink in the evening.

    The Cornish people are wonderfully friendly & helpful, and you dont thave to spend a lot to enjoy the amazing scenery.

    Total cost for our 4 days away inc fuel from Cheshire meals, drinks & sundries I estimate at less than £400, or £130 per person. Great value!!!!

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  • The Bank Manager
    Love rating 72
    The Bank Manager said

    Personally, I think a haircut is a non-discretionary spend. It costs about £13 a visit every 6 weeks or so and isn’t a luxury purchase.

    I wish to have a professional cut my hair and not my wife or someone else (even me!). I appreciate these days a lot of men have their hair very short and one can buy a trimmer for the cost of about 4 haircuts, but I'd look a twit with such a hairstyle, so it doesn't suit me.

    A bit of latitude has to be taken when I assess an Income & Expenditure document and outside of sighting some forms where ladies have noted their £150 per month cost for salon visits, if I see say £10pm for a barber, it's an 'essential' in my book, or perhaps £40 for a lady (hey ladies, are you charged that much more because you’re being ‘taken for a ride’, or does your hairdresser do it because of the ‘styling’?

    My barbers are Italian gentlemen and I get a fantastic, authentic espresso or cappuccino for free on each visit, so it can’t be such a price hike for the coffee you’re served in a salon, can it?

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  • PoohBah
    Love rating 18
    PoohBah said

    @The Bank Manager: I would rate paying £13 every six weeks as a luxury. My barber is a professional and charges £7.50 (it's just gone up from £7) and I go every two months or even ten weeks without becoming scruffy. He provides a good selection of daily papers, and that's all the entertainment I need. That's an expensive coffee you're getting, but your hairdresser is evidently a good businessman! I suspect you are right in thinking the ladies are being ripped off at £40 or more a pop.

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  • CuNNaXXa
    Love rating 362
    CuNNaXXa said

    @ yocoxy...

    20% of the population own 80% of the resources, while the other 80% of us own just 20% of the resources (homes, businesses and other assets, including monetary wealth).

    Anyone who thinks the 'them and us' situation doesn't exist must, in my opinion, be naive. While many of those 80% can rise in their station, they are still the mass that 'doesn't matter'.

    So, who are those 20% who own the majority and control everything? Well the obvious answers are the wealthy pop stars such as Adele, footballers such as Beckham, the Queen, MPs and the PM, banking executives, big business executives, and Richard Branson.

    Even among the 80% are business owners who do well, but not well enough to be on the radar of wealth. The people who own my own company are very wealthy, but even they don't compare to the lavish lifestyles that footballers and popstars have.

    Oh, and with this wealth comes power. For example, what do you do if you discover a paedophile? Well, if he is poor, the put him in prison and stick his name on the sex offender's register, but if he is in the 20% club, you knight him.

    Sick, I know, but no one will be able to convince me that Sir Jimmy Savile's antics never went unnoticed, yet his status in life protected him from prosecution, and gained him royal favour. Hows about that then...

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  • ronat42
    Love rating 62
    ronat42 said

    This is a list made by people who already have all of the essentials that many people can only hope for. I think I can remember something called "The Maslow Triangle" from management training courses many years ago. Perhaps the title of this list uses the term "Lifestyle" as something enjoyed by those who just don't have to worry too much about "Essentials". However, it remains a personal choice and I have no gripe as most of it recirculates cash and generates employment and tax funds to help run the country, just so long as it does not include the essentials of those who live off the state.

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  • alexms
    Love rating 8
    alexms said

    I can't help thinking that in many cases we can still enjoy many of these activities more cheaply with even a bit of imagination / effort - from Aldi to camping to low-energy bulbs to cycling to recycling to secondhand shops, homebrew, library subscriptions to growing even a few herbs / veg there's tons of ways to cut costs and still have a great - often improved - quality of life, simultaneously benefitting the local / UK economy in healthy and ecological ways. Obviously food etc is essential but 'inveting' in freeview or a bike could save a great deal elsewhere.

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  • mym1nd
    Love rating 0
    mym1nd said

    The one that ALWAYS gets me, even when I was a kid in a single parent family where money didn't exist, was still the insistence on a holiday. And by that I mean going to a resort. This probably explains why I haven't had a passport in 3 years (and only 1 in my life) and my honeymoon was one wonderful week in Croatia followed by day trips (one to Lego Land) and a few nights out. It's just not where my money (house refurbishment) and time (see previous plus unwell son) is best placed.

    Although probably I think, in my position, a tv subscription is required. But essential no. Just my nicety to offset everything else - my life is for living not saving as one poster said. And take always - £5 grilled chicken and lamb kebab so that on our big cleaning weekends we don't create mess, and undo our hard work. Or when we have lots of other jobs on the go (like hospital appointments or at the moment house buying). Yes that is an essential for me, in-spite of the fact that cooking is therapy.

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  • mrs weatherley
    Love rating 31
    mrs weatherley said

    Culture and arts not essential? very wise words why not go the whole hog and we can all move into barracks and never go out at all.....LIFE is essential...some enjoyment is vital...give us ideas to o it all on the cheap by all means but don't tell us that weekend breaks are not essential....how else would I visit my children all gone off to make lives for themselves...the world belongs to everyone not just those who can 'afford it'....culture is community...art is spiritual...you don't mention religion as such but it is life for many or at least the meaning of life. TV subscriptions for the carer can be a means of not going insane..stuck at home all day...we are a wealthy country the trick is to stop viewing things in terms of affordability..creating have's an have nots time has come for us to see what we can all do an base our society on that.....more ideas less censure...someone's job depends on your taking a meal out or going on a trip....low paid jobs too in tourism and food....what sort of economy will be left when we all are just in UK kennels...I live a pretty frugal life..but without culture and arts an family it would be no life at all...just existence....very nearly at that point already.

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  • cleogen_blue2
    Love rating 73
    cleogen_blue2 said

    This ia all most interesting but really one needs look no further than basic psychology using Maslow's Heirarchy of Needs and the Theory of Relative Deprivation.

    In general terms the UK (as the USA and most of Europe) is an affluent society and as such has gone way beyond basic needs of eating, keeping warm etc and staying alive. Like taking the layers off an onion, as one need is assured, new ones appear.

    We feel deprived if others around, even those on benefits, get to take holidays and we don't or if others can order takeaways and we cannot. That's human nature and it is the principal determinate for behaviour just as mother nature is the principal determinate for climate ....always has been, always will be.

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  • albatross5
    Love rating 50
    albatross5 said

    I have no intention of making my life a frugal misery for the idiot green cult. If alexms wants to ride his/her bike to the dowdy Aldi and live frugally on a pittance, so be it but that is not the choice of the majority and we are suppose to live by majority rule in the UK, not green dogmas. We like our lives of luxury and as we have more so our thresholds of what is essential increase. Long live consumerism!

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  • marram
    Love rating 46
    marram said

    @mym1nd - my honeymoon was a lunch in a restaurant chain followed by a ride home!

    I got my first proper passport when I was 57 and my company wanted me to travel abroad. (I had a visitors' passport in the 60s when I went on an exchange to France). I have been in a hairdresser only about 4 times in my life and never in the 7 years since I retired!

    All this has never been out of choice, but out of lack of means. All the same, I reckon I probably would always have been a 'low maintenance' girl. But I think anyone who wants to be messed about by another person, and pay for it, should be able to do so. We all need pleasure in life, in whatever form we prefer. To reduce life to eating and sleeping and keeping warm would be soul-destroying.

    My 'non-essentials' would include a Serrano Ham direct from Spain about once a year, and knitting yarn (I justify this by making clothes for the family, but shop-bought would be cheaper, if not as nice.) Anything else apart from the basics of food, heating and a nice bed to sleep in I could possibly give up, even the TV although it's freesat with built-in freeview. What luxury!

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  • krustallos
    Love rating 39
    krustallos said

    @muira obviously lv have conducted their research on the well above average income bracket!!

    The average household income in the UK is £38,547 after tax (2011) and £6k on holidays and nights out doesn't look so excessive in that context (what haircuts are doing on the list I'm unsure). Of course this average is made up of a small number of households with very high incomes and a huge number of people with considerably below average incomes, which is why the figures will not co-incide with most people's experience.

    For example, on a small island where the king has an income of £10m per year and his 1000 subjects live on £100 per year each, the average income is £10,089.91, an entirely misleading figure. This is essentially the economic model we've chosen for ourselves as a society, more so every year, and you'll see plenty of support for it from commenters here. It explains why the economic average is becoming less and less relevant as a measure of the lives of the majority. In 1973 the average was a lot closer to the way most people lived than it is now.

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  • muira
    Love rating 30
    muira said

    @ krustallos

    have you allowed for tax evasion,exemption,dodging ,fiddling expenses,cash in hand etc..

    on your small island,that probably does or does not have a king or head of state

    or heaven forbid include the likes of gb or greece or a tiny islet owned by a crafty

    entreprenuer type of person in your 2011 household figures?

    that could possibly add a haircut to his or her list?..but is already on holiday,

    and nights out

    are a probably a relief from the stifling heat of the unrelenting tropical sun

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  • Klawman
    Love rating 17
    Klawman said

    @krustallos

    Your exmaple is incorrect. You are using "average" in the sense of "arithmetic mean" (ie the sum of all the incomes divided by the number of people). This is an accurate descriptor only if the sample population follows a Gaussian (bell-shaped) distribution. Income does not follow a Gaussian distribution, but a highly skewed one. As you correctly point out, a handful of very high values dramatically affects the arithemetic mean.

    For this reason, the correct way to look at "average income" is not the arithmetic mean but the MEDIAN. The median is the mid-point value in a distribution, and indeed is the measure normally used to describe "average income".

    Given your Island example, the mid-point of the 1,001 inhabitants (the King and all his subjects) is 500.5. In this case, one would take the mean of the incomes of the 500th richest person and the 501st richest, which is £100. Thus, the median income would be £100 a year - which IS an accurate reflection, and not £10,089.91, the arithmetic mean.

    @albatross5

    I find comments such as "idiot green cult" both arrogant and insulting.

    I don't shop at Aldi, but I do ride a bike (for fun as well as fitness), and I applaud those who take an environmentally responsible attitude, rather than squander irreplacable resources, eg by jetting round the world, thereby also contributing disproportionately to climate change.

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