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Cut the cost of the wedding

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1) Consider an off-peak wedding
Getting married on a Saturday in the middle of July is, funnily enough, quite expensive. However, getting married on a Friday or Sunday can drastically cut the costs of everything from the church and reception venue to the DJ and wedding transport.

2) Cut out the non-essentials
There are hosts of ‘must-haves’ according to the wedding magazines that are nothing of the sort.

Do you really need to send out Save the Date cards to your guests, only to follow them up with formal invitations a month or two later? And will any of your guests care if they don’t get favours on the table? Probably not, so why are you spending good money on them?


3) Rope in your friends
Do you have a friend who is great on a set of decks, or knows how to handle a camera? Or perhaps you are best mates with a florist, or have a friend with a massive garden you can use for the reception?

 Chances are, at least someone in your family or group of friends will be able to help out in some respect at the wedding and help you keep the costs down. Make sure you ask around!

4) Rent, don’t buy
After the wedding day, will you ever wear your wedding dress again? Probably not – it will just sit in the cupboard gathering dust. So instead of dropping thousands on a dress to keep, why not spend hundreds on a dress for the day.

It’s exactly the same with the gents’ suits – when are you ever going to need a morning suit besides on your wedding day?


5) Negotiate!
Most firms that deal with weddings will have set options, but that doesn’t mean they are inflexible. So when discussing the menu with your reception venue, why not see whether they can do a buffet instead of a sit down meal?

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  • TheWelshman
    Love rating 62
    TheWelshman said

    One of my friends paid for everyone to have a disposable camera that they gave out at the begining of the day and made sure everybody took their own photos.

    Also instaed of having hundreds of pounds of gifts on the table they went for tiny sweets like jelly babies and fizzy cola bottles! Cheap as it gets and everyone loves sweets!

    The one i loves was in a wedding that had no frills on the tables, just a simple ticket for everyone. A £1 lottery ticket for that saturday night!

    Report on 07 October 2009  |  Love thisLove  0 love
  • Ellem
    Love rating 3
    Ellem said

    On the other side of the dress debate, I did buy. However, a local wedding dress shop was consolidating it's assets to strengthen it's position in the current economic climate (very wisely), so going from two shops to one. I went down on the last day of opening before everything moved to it's new shop & found my dress for £200 instead of the £750 it should have been. As an added bonus the lady said I could have it for £150 as long as I could take it there and then. Bargain! I still get a fitting included 6 weeks before, so it's all good. (And if I go somewhere that requires a Ball dress in the future I just need to give it a black or green overskirt as the top part is red.)

    Report on 03 November 2009  |  Love thisLove  0 love
  • bellini
    Love rating 78
    bellini said

    A friend of mine has found a wedding dress shop that specialises in selling the samples that are made. The only thing is that because the samples are made for models, they're sometimes only available in teeny sizes....

    http://www.thedressmarket.net/samplesale.aspx

    Report on 04 November 2009  |  Love thisLove  0 love
  • Mike10613
    Love rating 414
    Mike10613 said

    The most economical thing is to stay single. My brother went to Gretna Green to get married, which saved a lot of money and did the honeymoon at the same time. The cheap reception was a barbecue in the garden when they returned. They did live together for over 10 years, just to be certain they were doing the right thing too!

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  • karen1403
    Love rating 1
    karen1403 said

    we got married on a Wednesday (9/9/09) saved us 40% straight away on the venue and catering and the guests got fab deals on their rooms at the hotel

    Report on 17 June 2010  |  Love thisLove  0 love
  • Stormkhan
    Love rating 3
    Stormkhan said

    To add to the "Forget the Save the Date cards" tip above (2), most people can be emailed well in advance, checking on availability, if children need to be counted and giving notice to guests. Then, when you know who truly want to come (barring the unexpected), you can send them official invitations by snail-mail.

    We're doing this and really helps when planning the catering numbers, something that you can save on by booking early. 

    Report on 13 August 2010  |  Love thisLove  0 love

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