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Weddings can be ridiculously expensive - make sure you're financially ready for marital bliss!

Get your finances in shape early

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 1) Set up a joint account
If there’s one thing you are guaranteed to argue about once you’re married it’s money.

To reduce this likelihood, set up a joint account to cover the essentials – the food shop, the gas bill, etc. You can then each access this account whenever you need to make a payment. However, it pays to keep a separate current account each to cover your own spending each month.  Just be sure to set up a direct debit to transfer over a fixed amount to the joint account each month


2) Ditch past ties
Don’t let your past ruin your future – make sure you are disentangled from any previous financial relationships.

A 'financial association' occurs when you take out credit together. Examples include taking out a joint account together, or being jointly responsible for a mortgage. Be sure to check your credit report to see whether you have any such associations.


3) Start saving
Weddings are exceptionally expensive occasions, and while some helpful parents are only too happy to make a contribution, very few of them can afford to shell out for the whole thing. So make sure you are putting money aside each month to cover your side of the bargain.

And be sure to put that money in a savings account that both pays a decent rate of interest, but also allows easy access so you can get at your cash.

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  • 5tephen
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    5tephen said

    Or dont get married!

    Report on 31 December 2009  |  Love thisLove  0 love
  • Stormkhan
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    Stormkhan said

    My tip? When you both decide to marry, you both need to be completely open with past debts and spending problems. If you want to be together, you must trust each other and money (debt) is a big cause of argument and rifts.

    Sit down and discuss your past money problems, things you did wrong, things you did right. Then - with a "clean slate" - you can both sort out your finances, without the need for recrimination, deceit and doubt.

    Oh, and a very simple tip - don't listen to others ideas of how weddings should be, especially from those on the television! You can be very happily married without spending thousands! The only important thing is that you both enjoy your event ... after all, you're not doing it for others! Just remember - A happy married life won't be easy if you start out together in debt, just to pay for the wedding! 

    Report on 12 August 2010  |  Love thisLove  0 love

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