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Lending to friends - the results are in

Ed Bowsher
by Lovemoney Staff Ed Bowsher on 30 March 2010  |  Comments 7 comments

Earlier this year, we did a reader survey on lending money to friends. Thanks to everyone who took part in the poll. I thought you might be interested in the results.

Earlier this year, we did a reader survey on lending money to friends. Thanks to everyone who took part in the poll. I thought you might be interested in the results.

I guess my biggest surprise was that 8% of respondents said they had lent more than £20,000 to friends at some point. That’s astonishingly generous. In fact, I think it’s bonkers!

We also learned that 64% of people have lent more than £200 to a friend at some point in their lives and that 60% have lent to relatives. Those numbers aren’t so surprising but still higher than I expected.

Here are some more results:

Lending money to friends

-          24% of people said that the largest amount they had lent to friends was between £200 and £499.

-          18% said the largest amount was between £500 and £999.

-          33% said the largest amount was between £1000 and £4999

-          10% said the largest amount was between £5000 and £9999

-          7% said the largest amount was between and £10000 and £19999

-          8% said the largest amount was £20000+

-          40% of the lenders got their money back, 31% never did, 29% were partially paid back or are still being paid back

-          37% of people would prefer to give money to friends rather than lend them money, 41% of people would prefer to lend, 22% won’t lend or give

Lending money to relatives

-          18% of people said the largest amount they had lent to relatives was between £200 and £499

-          22% said the largest amount was between £500 and £999

-          34% said the largest amount was between £1000 and £4999

-          12% said the largest amount was between £5000 and £9999

-          8% said the largest amount was between £10000 and £19,999

-          5% said the largest amount was £20,000 plus

-          52% got their money back, 24% never did, 24% partially got their money back or are still being paid back

-          52% of people would prefer to give money to relatives rather than lend, 36% would prefer to lend, 12% won’t lend or give.

What do you think? Would you be willing to lend more than £20,000 to a friend? Tell me in the comments box below.

More: My friend asked me to loan him £10,000

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  • bohemianlady
    Love rating 7
    bohemianlady said

    Of the 31% who were never paid back by the friend, did any of them say if they expected to be paid back?

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  • Ed Bowsher
    Love rating 79
    Ed Bowsher said

    Hello Bohemianlady,

    That's a good question. Unfortunately we didn't think to ask that one.....

    Dumb!

    Regards,

    Ed

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  • DP130132
    Love rating 20
    DP130132 said

    After a bad storm and torrential rain, a 15foot high garden wall crashed down into the property of a neighbour below, damaging the house below and obstructing the entrance. The Insurance company claims adjuster arrived and confirmed that work must be started immediately. Big equipment was necessary, underpinning etc., etc. for 2 months work Later, the Insurance company paid for damage to the neighbours house saying it was under public liability. They refused the claim for the wall, etc., saying that after an in depth investigation,concluded the wall had not been maintained, and the claim is refused.

    Without hesitation I loaned my friend to pay for the bulldozer, excavators etc, as they would not work without immediate payment, anticipating recompense from the Insurance Company claim. I have "loaned" about 20 grand!!

    You can imagine my opinion of Insurance (Sun Alliance policy paid 20 odd years without claim) The matter is now in hands of Ombudsman.

    BONKERS??? With hindsight - maybe!! But one can't take it with them!!

     

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  • freespirit
    Love rating 1
    freespirit said

    Bonkers? It's only money Ed! There is more to life than money and when you've got friends and family that you care about and they care about you then it is as I say only money. What would you do with that money? Oh! invest it to make more money because then I would have more money but a friend or family member might be struggling. I can see where you're coming from here Ed....not!

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  • Ed Bowsher
    Love rating 79
    Ed Bowsher said

    Hi guys,

    You're right, 'bonkers' was too strong. If you want to help your friends and family, and you have the spare cash, then good for you! But just don't assume you'll definitely get the money back....

    Ed

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  • bohemianlady
    Love rating 7
    bohemianlady said

    I asked if people expected to be paid back because the time I lent money to a friend I lent her what she needed but did not think that she would repay me. I lent her money that I could afford to lose - bonkers to do otherwise.

    BL

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  • tinkerbell007
    Love rating 3
    tinkerbell007 said

    Unfortunately i have leant money to friends and family over the years expecting to be paid back with interest but after a few payments they say they cant afford any more and then stop paying. Meanwhile interest is still accruing and I dont see any end in sight. Never again!!!!!!!!!!! Been burnt too often!

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